Disappointments are rough…woe to those soft in this life.
Everyone is vulnerable to deceptions in all fields of life, but the most common one is love deception. For one reason or another, we break up with our lovers and our lives collapse in one second in front of us.
May be we love someone who is not worth this love and give him much Importance and care to realize after a long time that it was the worst experience we have ever had.
We allow ourselves to build palaces and castles and dream of picking flowers and fruits from their gardens, but we wake up finding ourselves stretched on a sandy beach threatened by sea waves that wipe every trace left on it.
Love disappointment is when you make of your beloved one your priority to find out that he even ignores your existence in his life.
But what can we do to overcome love disappointments ?
We are allowed to grieve our fate, but we should not make of it our life style, as life should go on.
We have to accept our love disappointment because we do not have other choices. When we accept what is happening to us we will stop our struggle against and start to understand the situation.
Though its bitterness, any love disappointment should be the starting point to a new, beautiful and successful love story ,for there is always a shining hope waiting for us, somewhere, to attain it .
Regardless our heartbreak one has to maintain his firmness, strength and determination to be able to overcome the crisis he goes through.
A heartbreak should be considered positively and without pessimism, we should be confident that whenever we fall we stand again, and that there is no success without failure.
If we try to replace grief by joy, things will go better and our heart will beat again.
We should never bother to recover someone who preferred going away and believe that when love disappears nothing can bring it back.
We have to forget and forgive to live a better life; we forget and do not remember our pain because this positive and civilized behavior will help us to heal our wounds.
We should not despair and don’t forget to give time to time as Time is the best healer.
Crying all that we need because in tears we change all the sadness we have inside of us, tears are the best remedy to cleanse our souls .we feel much better and more relaxed if we decide to leave in tears all the pain of always.
Try not to prolong the inner monologue concerning this person, as it is obvious that when we go through these moments this person occupies our head and insists heavily.
Listening to music is relaxing; music wakes the endorphins, the famous hormones of happiness.
Doing activities that enrich our existence, it is very important to have our mind busy .Do activities that have always pleased us, reading , painting, gardening , etc